When the girl, a teenager or a woman decides to participate in a beauty contest, there is always someone in your life, to express an opinion about the negative effects that rival the drama of his self-image and self-esteem debate. The even more heated when the mother put the baby infant or child should be a Beauty Pageant.
In general, negative statements come from people whose only contact with the world of beauty pageants is what they saw on television as toddlers and tiaras or read in the tabloids. Believe me, I know that the positive effects of state, and sometimes I shake my head in disbelief to see the behavior captured by the cameras.
All you have to understand is that media is a business. To stay in business, a profit to be made. To make money, people need to watch the shows or buy magazines. Advertisers only put their money where the masses are watching and the ratings are high. The theater is what captures the attention of viewers, so the media will work outrageous extreme actions of some participants keep their audience wanting more spectacular.
So the assumption that all missien have a negative impact on a woman's self esteem and self-esteem is not accurate. 80/20 principle applies to beauty contests in the world and that is to say 80% of the drama will have 20% of the participants. So if you play, where 10 competitors, there are two people that create the drama. But let me ask you, what competitors are people going to focus most of their attention? Two competitors, who are constantly stirring the pot, of course. It 's like a car accident. You know you should stay focused on the road in front of you, but you can not seem to do a lap.
The parents finally decide whether a minor participating in a beauty contest. Just because your child wants to enter a contest that does not necessarily mean they have to this point.
Children and teens physically evolve differently. This has a huge influence on self-esteem of a young girl and self-perception. Parents, be aware of this transition in the life of a young girl. Listen to what your child says before, during and after competitions. If you hear or see any signs below, waiting until they are physically and psychologically ready for a competitive environment can be a better choice.
If you are a woman and you hear an inner voice say, or hear one of the following warning signs, as well as roads. There can be no outstanding issues in your life that must be addressed before to compete with so the experience is positive, healthy, improve your self-esteem. It 's normal to have one or more of these thoughts immediately pop into mind when the names are published. 'S when these thoughts to stop and play again and again to the head long after the game, which operate in a notice.
Warning Signs
* I'm not good enough, because they did not win.
* I need to beat other women, or because you are a winner or a loser.
* I do not like because it was chosen as the best.
* I am a loser and worthless because I did not win.
* I am ugly, because the judges did not pick me.
* What did I do wrong? Why do not I like?
* There is something wrong.
Basing your self-image and self esteem of subjective comments and approval of a panel of strangers is not healthy. If you find yourself constantly compare themselves to other participants, their harassment on Facebook to know everything about them, or to contest after contest, because that's the only time you feel worthy, there may be something else happens.
If only once a girl or a woman hears the words "you're beautiful", "I love you" or "I'm so proud of you" is when she is made up, well dressed, physically fit, or if he wins the title can negatively missien affect his self-image is increased.
Be honest with yourself. What do you want to experience the beauty contest? For women, there is nothing wrong with a competitive contest to recharge the battery, or experience a fun and glamorous. The last time I dressed in evening dress was her prom or a wedding. It is very positive to take time for you to enjoy the company of other women out and rejoice. However, if an inner voice that says "capture this crown finally demonstrate that I am beautiful" or "I'll finally be somebody important as Miss / Mrs__" rethink the competition at that time.
Participate in a beauty contest to build self-esteem and self-image when used as a tool to polish the full health of the person you already are. Open career opportunities for competitive services in the community, build confidence and communication skills and are fun. A professional skills, experienced coach can help you stay focused. It is very important to surround yourself with people that makes you feel better about who you are when you're with them.
However, if you use beauty contests as a way to try to fill the empty hole, or to show someone that you are well enough, that is a warning. It may be useful for the work of a certified Life Coach, or other licensed professional, and work through some issues unresolved life before competing so the gaming experience is positive.
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